Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
All 30? Seems highly unlikely. They still let him put his d1ck in them.( . )( . ) said:What if all those women were fatties?
What about good looking but crazy as fvck? If crazy counts I'm a man hor. If it dont count I may be a born again virgin and gonna eBay my virginity and make some cashola..( . )( . ) said:What if all those women were fatties?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.sylvester the cat said:This place can be quite intimidating for noobs what with all the advice being given. But how much of this advice is worth listening to and how much is it just for benefit of the advice-giver (reputation, ego, etc)
For my part i'm in my forties, had experience in relationships some serious, some not so serious. I've lived with two long term partners, been engaged but never married and had sexual encounters with over thirty women.
Given the advice we give can have life changing consequences What is your experience That qualifies you to tell others how it is?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dude are you high? Go eat some curry, it will shut your mouth.skinnyguy said:Someone who bangs hookers is more qualified than a guy who has slept with 50 average looking women.
At age 100 damn old man you spend all your AARP money on Viagra or get it up el naturale?! Lmfao!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:mustfirstregister said:2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
Stole my line you sonaf***** :trouble:Poon King said:My f*cking name. :trouble:
I honestly don't think this qualifies. I have had sex with over 30 women as well, I'm 22 and I don't consider myself a PUA. I think it goes deeper than that. A close friend of mine has had sex with two women and he could get women a whole lot easier than I, but he's extremely picky. No doubt though he's a womanizer, has the looks, the attitude, "swagger". I have more of the social circle, I get the lay, she tells her friend who then wants it, move on down the line, etc.Eternal_water said:Well if you've had sex with over 30 women then I'd say your "qualified" to give advice.
^ This. You can't "teach" rich or good looking lol. There's obviously nothing wrong with encouraging guys to improve their looks/money/status, but please don't think that the guy with 100 lays knows some magic trick that he can "teach" to an average guy so he can get the same results. It doesn't work that way. Yes, you can definitely learn something from those guys, but understand the limitations and be realistic.Trump said:I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.