She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
All 30? Seems highly unlikely. They still let him put his d1ck in them.( . )( . ) said:What if all those women were fatties?
What about good looking but crazy as fvck? If crazy counts I'm a man hor. If it dont count I may be a born again virgin and gonna eBay my virginity and make some cashola..( . )( . ) said:What if all those women were fatties?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.sylvester the cat said:This place can be quite intimidating for noobs what with all the advice being given. But how much of this advice is worth listening to and how much is it just for benefit of the advice-giver (reputation, ego, etc)
For my part i'm in my forties, had experience in relationships some serious, some not so serious. I've lived with two long term partners, been engaged but never married and had sexual encounters with over thirty women.
Given the advice we give can have life changing consequences What is your experience That qualifies you to tell others how it is?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dude are you high? Go eat some curry, it will shut your mouth.skinnyguy said:Someone who bangs hookers is more qualified than a guy who has slept with 50 average looking women.
At age 100 damn old man you spend all your AARP money on Viagra or get it up el naturale?! Lmfao!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:mustfirstregister said:2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
Stole my line you sonaf***** :trouble:Poon King said:My f*cking name. :trouble:
I honestly don't think this qualifies. I have had sex with over 30 women as well, I'm 22 and I don't consider myself a PUA. I think it goes deeper than that. A close friend of mine has had sex with two women and he could get women a whole lot easier than I, but he's extremely picky. No doubt though he's a womanizer, has the looks, the attitude, "swagger". I have more of the social circle, I get the lay, she tells her friend who then wants it, move on down the line, etc.Eternal_water said:Well if you've had sex with over 30 women then I'd say your "qualified" to give advice.
^ This. You can't "teach" rich or good looking lol. There's obviously nothing wrong with encouraging guys to improve their looks/money/status, but please don't think that the guy with 100 lays knows some magic trick that he can "teach" to an average guy so he can get the same results. It doesn't work that way. Yes, you can definitely learn something from those guys, but understand the limitations and be realistic.Trump said:I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.