She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
All 30? Seems highly unlikely. They still let him put his d1ck in them.( . )( . ) said:What if all those women were fatties?
What about good looking but crazy as fvck? If crazy counts I'm a man hor. If it dont count I may be a born again virgin and gonna eBay my virginity and make some cashola..( . )( . ) said:What if all those women were fatties?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.sylvester the cat said:This place can be quite intimidating for noobs what with all the advice being given. But how much of this advice is worth listening to and how much is it just for benefit of the advice-giver (reputation, ego, etc)
For my part i'm in my forties, had experience in relationships some serious, some not so serious. I've lived with two long term partners, been engaged but never married and had sexual encounters with over thirty women.
Given the advice we give can have life changing consequences What is your experience That qualifies you to tell others how it is?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dude are you high? Go eat some curry, it will shut your mouth.skinnyguy said:Someone who bangs hookers is more qualified than a guy who has slept with 50 average looking women.
At age 100 damn old man you spend all your AARP money on Viagra or get it up el naturale?! Lmfao!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:mustfirstregister said:2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
Stole my line you sonaf***** :trouble:Poon King said:My f*cking name. :trouble:
I honestly don't think this qualifies. I have had sex with over 30 women as well, I'm 22 and I don't consider myself a PUA. I think it goes deeper than that. A close friend of mine has had sex with two women and he could get women a whole lot easier than I, but he's extremely picky. No doubt though he's a womanizer, has the looks, the attitude, "swagger". I have more of the social circle, I get the lay, she tells her friend who then wants it, move on down the line, etc.Eternal_water said:Well if you've had sex with over 30 women then I'd say your "qualified" to give advice.
^ This. You can't "teach" rich or good looking lol. There's obviously nothing wrong with encouraging guys to improve their looks/money/status, but please don't think that the guy with 100 lays knows some magic trick that he can "teach" to an average guy so he can get the same results. It doesn't work that way. Yes, you can definitely learn something from those guys, but understand the limitations and be realistic.Trump said:I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.