Backtothedojo
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Hi Everyone. What openers are working for everyone these days? I'm heading out tomorrow night and I really want to get my hands dirty. Any suggestions?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What Openers Are Working For Everyone These Days?
- Thread starter Backtothedojo
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
" Wanna fck"
11 out of 10 times works
11 out of 10 times works
dustmuffin
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hey BB suck my c ock works for me
JohnChops
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Hi.
logicallefty
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"Hey what's shakin. "
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
raider87
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No joke I used that on facebook years ago. She reported me and they deleted my facebook lmao
I wanted to try it because I went through my exs phone and some dude used that as his opening text msg and she ended up sleeping with him. Couldn't believe it.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Lmao, that's what they call bad luck.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Same open I always use, comment and joke about something around us, if I get positive IOI, I ask "What's your name?', if she gives me her name and responds with IOI, then I just keep going, playing it by ear. Before departing I ask for her number. If she gives it up and gives HIGH IOI then I'll just ask her out right there. If she just gives me her number I'll call when I feel like it and ask her out.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
HoneyHitter
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Guys, good body language (eye contact!) paired with any situational opener will do the job. Stop thinking so hard.