Backtothedojo
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Hi Everyone. What openers are working for everyone these days? I'm heading out tomorrow night and I really want to get my hands dirty. Any suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What Openers Are Working For Everyone These Days?
- Thread starter Backtothedojo
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
" Wanna fck"
11 out of 10 times works
11 out of 10 times works
dustmuffin
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hey BB suck my c ock works for me
JohnChops
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Hi.
logicallefty
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"Hey what's shakin. "
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
raider87
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No joke I used that on facebook years ago. She reported me and they deleted my facebook lmao
I wanted to try it because I went through my exs phone and some dude used that as his opening text msg and she ended up sleeping with him. Couldn't believe it.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Lmao, that's what they call bad luck.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Same open I always use, comment and joke about something around us, if I get positive IOI, I ask "What's your name?', if she gives me her name and responds with IOI, then I just keep going, playing it by ear. Before departing I ask for her number. If she gives it up and gives HIGH IOI then I'll just ask her out right there. If she just gives me her number I'll call when I feel like it and ask her out.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HoneyHitter
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Guys, good body language (eye contact!) paired with any situational opener will do the job. Stop thinking so hard.