Backtothedojo
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Hi Everyone. What openers are working for everyone these days? I'm heading out tomorrow night and I really want to get my hands dirty. Any suggestions?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What Openers Are Working For Everyone These Days?
- Thread starter Backtothedojo
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
" Wanna fck"
11 out of 10 times works
11 out of 10 times works
dustmuffin
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hey BB suck my c ock works for me
JohnChops
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Hi.
logicallefty
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"Hey what's shakin. "
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
raider87
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No joke I used that on facebook years ago. She reported me and they deleted my facebook lmao
I wanted to try it because I went through my exs phone and some dude used that as his opening text msg and she ended up sleeping with him. Couldn't believe it.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Lmao, that's what they call bad luck.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Same open I always use, comment and joke about something around us, if I get positive IOI, I ask "What's your name?', if she gives me her name and responds with IOI, then I just keep going, playing it by ear. Before departing I ask for her number. If she gives it up and gives HIGH IOI then I'll just ask her out right there. If she just gives me her number I'll call when I feel like it and ask her out.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HoneyHitter
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Guys, good body language (eye contact!) paired with any situational opener will do the job. Stop thinking so hard.