"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what movie to see?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Her: Lets get, "How To Lose a Man in 10 Days (or something equally stupid)"
You: (give her a skeptical look and say) "I'm not a fan for that, but if you want it by all means, just don't expect to SEE the whole movie"
Too much fun, I love it
--Mission
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
Seriously guys, this isn't a big issue nor a debatable topic. Whether she comes over to your place or you go over to her place, most likely you two won't be watching the movie. My first movie with my girl was some crappy old movie like "Stay Alive" at the theaters. Horrible choice, but I gave her an option between comedy and horror, and horror it was...which only left Stay Alive as an option. I couldn't care less to tell you the truth. We barely watched the movie because we had our own thing going on
As long as the movie isn't something as weird as Star Trek, you'll be fine, because you two will be making out anyway (assuming you two are close).