"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what movie to see?

MrS

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Hostel?
Err...
Horror thriller films sound the best.
Or just a "deep" comedy, like 40 year old virgin, something that isnt your two bums doing dumb ****.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gdi

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well i ended up getting zorro but we really didn't do much watching, but thanks anyways.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
Girls wont like porn unless she is a SLU__T. Dont ever watch porn with a girl you want to get as you girlfriend.
if your girlfriend doesn't like your porn, your either show her the wrong porn or you have the wrong girlfriend!

;)
 

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Oh god dreamx, no comment on that. Im in agreeance with most of the other posts here, go in there and pick something that YOU want to watch, don't let her rope you into some chick flick, if she tries to, you can agree but pull some C and F, such as:
Her: Lets get, "How To Lose a Man in 10 Days (or something equally stupid)"
You: (give her a skeptical look and say) "I'm not a fan for that, but if you want it by all means, just don't expect to SEE the whole movie"

Too much fun, I love it
--Mission
 

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shes really passive with things like picking a movie or where to eat so it was always my decision.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thats good news. you got hand in this relationship. i wouldntve picked zorro...i wouldve came in carrying girls gone wild and had something like hostel or fourty year old virgin (probably one of the best movies for leading up to getting physical, and thats more from experience) but sounds like you got her under control.
 

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Uhhhhhh...dude? Star Wars? Star Trek? Anime? All signs pointing towards LAME? :)

Seriously guys, this isn't a big issue nor a debatable topic. Whether she comes over to your place or you go over to her place, most likely you two won't be watching the movie. My first movie with my girl was some crappy old movie like "Stay Alive" at the theaters. Horrible choice, but I gave her an option between comedy and horror, and horror it was...which only left Stay Alive as an option. I couldn't care less to tell you the truth. We barely watched the movie because we had our own thing going on :up:

As long as the movie isn't something as weird as Star Trek, you'll be fine, because you two will be making out anyway (assuming you two are close).
 

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well i understand if your just getting to know her and you havn't done much horror will get her on you, but its kinda hard to makeout while your hearing people screaming and what not. The idea that picking a bad movie or atleast non engaging movie that you can drift in and out of is great. Shes paying more attention to you but it also gives you something to do during breathers. but this is all just imo.
 
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