"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
what movie to see?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Her: Lets get, "How To Lose a Man in 10 Days (or something equally stupid)"
You: (give her a skeptical look and say) "I'm not a fan for that, but if you want it by all means, just don't expect to SEE the whole movie"
Too much fun, I love it
--Mission
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
Seriously guys, this isn't a big issue nor a debatable topic. Whether she comes over to your place or you go over to her place, most likely you two won't be watching the movie. My first movie with my girl was some crappy old movie like "Stay Alive" at the theaters. Horrible choice, but I gave her an option between comedy and horror, and horror it was...which only left Stay Alive as an option. I couldn't care less to tell you the truth. We barely watched the movie because we had our own thing going on
As long as the movie isn't something as weird as Star Trek, you'll be fine, because you two will be making out anyway (assuming you two are close).