"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What makes you instantly left swipe on a girl you see on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge/Facebook Dating

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To this day I'll never understood why women think men care about their careers.
I don't think many of them do, they do it mostly for themselves and outcompeting their female peers. Most of what women do nowadays has nothing to do with what men want.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Every time it's a group pic, it always happens to be the least attractive one.
Yeah, I'm sure we've all been through the rollercoaster of getting excited about matching with one of those girls, thinking she's the hot one of the group pic, only to quickly find out it's the fattie. Instant delete!


While we are at it, this is not necessarily an instant 'no', but I always wondered why women put pictures with babies, even if they are not their own..?! I think they find those pics cute, being women, without realizing what a huge turnoff it can be to men.
 
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Yeah, I'm sure we've all been through the rollercoaster of getting excited about matching with one of those girls, thinking she's the hot one of the group pic, only to quickly find out it's the fattie. Instant delete!


While we are at it, this is not necessarily an instant 'no', but I always wondered why women put pictures with babies, even if they are not their own..?! I think they find those pics cute, being women, without realizing what a huge turnoff it can be to men.
Not as bad as women who have pics with guys, but who knows maybe they are looking to find a Bull for their cuckold.


The ones who so no FWBs or hookups are ironically the easiest ones to fvck on the first date.
It's because they have been pumped and dumped once before, they want a chad to commit to them.
 

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Yeah, I'm sure we've all been through the rollercoaster of getting excited about matching with one of those girls, thinking she's the hot one of the group pic, only to quickly find out it's the fattie. Instant delete!


While we are at it, this is not necessarily an instant 'no', but I always wondered why women put pictures with babies, even if they are not their own..?! I think they find those pics cute, being women, without realizing what a huge turnoff it can be to men.
I'd be annoyed if I saw my ex putting pics of her and our daughter on her old. Would bug me on any social media, never mind a bloody dating app. What goes on in some women's heads?

Low chance I know, but you're exposing yourself and kids to thousands of random men. You don't know who you're dealing with, someting tells me paedophiles are unlikely to mention they find kids attractive in their profile...

Also don't mind mild pouting, but when women screw their mouth up too much its really unattractive... particularly if mid 30's onwards and not good looking.Makes them look like lunatics. Not sure why they think men would find it appealing, but no doubt they get swipes still
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Also, septum rings. Repulsive.
 
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