"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What makes you a great boyfriend?

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''What makes you a great boyfriend?''

A chick gave me that question, so I got curious
1) What would be a good answer
2) What would sosuave guy answer
3) What makes you guys (on suave) a great boyfriend in your own terms
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The only answer if you have just met her.

"Slow down cow-girl, I'm not sure if I like you yet much less want to sleep with you."

It is always a good idea when a chick asks you difficult questions like this is to turn it sexual. And she how she responds.
 
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The boyfriend label, is for boys. I doesn't apply to me. (Acting insulted)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Silly questions. You could go into role playing a chode....

"oh I'd treat you like a princess" "I'd wash your car" "I'd do your homework", "bring you breakfast in bed (sexual nlp slip)" etc etc

Mocking chode behavior and chode probing questions thus covertly demonstrating that a chode you're not...
 
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"I wouldn't cheat on you that often and I'd make you breakfast assuming you like half-burnt toast"
 
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Pressure flip, what makes you a good gf? Then continue to ask her questions while avoiding answering hers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Poon King said:
All you should care about is what makes a great MAN.

Being a great MAN should be your goal. Working to be a "great boyfriend" is the domain of white knights.
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Yes, is like asking...

What kind of knucklehead are you?

Either way, is still knucklehead.
 
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Von said:
''What makes you a great boyfriend?''

A chick gave me that question, so I got curious
1) What would be a good answer
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I would answer: 'Why should I care about being a great boyfriend?'

I could imagine at the funeral: 'He didn't accompish, create, or do anything with his life, but he sure was a great boyfriend. He bought his girlfriend flowers everyday, cooked for her, carried her purse, never upset her, and made sure she was always happy in the relationship.'

Brutal.
 
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Girl: What makes you a great boyfriend?
Old_skoolr: Something you'll never know.
 
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