"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What makes you a great boyfriend?

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''What makes you a great boyfriend?''

A chick gave me that question, so I got curious
1) What would be a good answer
2) What would sosuave guy answer
3) What makes you guys (on suave) a great boyfriend in your own terms
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The only answer if you have just met her.

"Slow down cow-girl, I'm not sure if I like you yet much less want to sleep with you."

It is always a good idea when a chick asks you difficult questions like this is to turn it sexual. And she how she responds.
 
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The boyfriend label, is for boys. I doesn't apply to me. (Acting insulted)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Silly questions. You could go into role playing a chode....

"oh I'd treat you like a princess" "I'd wash your car" "I'd do your homework", "bring you breakfast in bed (sexual nlp slip)" etc etc

Mocking chode behavior and chode probing questions thus covertly demonstrating that a chode you're not...
 
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"I wouldn't cheat on you that often and I'd make you breakfast assuming you like half-burnt toast"
 
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Pressure flip, what makes you a good gf? Then continue to ask her questions while avoiding answering hers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Poon King said:
All you should care about is what makes a great MAN.

Being a great MAN should be your goal. Working to be a "great boyfriend" is the domain of white knights.
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Yes, is like asking...

What kind of knucklehead are you?

Either way, is still knucklehead.
 
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Von said:
''What makes you a great boyfriend?''

A chick gave me that question, so I got curious
1) What would be a good answer
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I would answer: 'Why should I care about being a great boyfriend?'

I could imagine at the funeral: 'He didn't accompish, create, or do anything with his life, but he sure was a great boyfriend. He bought his girlfriend flowers everyday, cooked for her, carried her purse, never upset her, and made sure she was always happy in the relationship.'

Brutal.
 
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Girl: What makes you a great boyfriend?
Old_skoolr: Something you'll never know.
 
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