"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What makes you a great boyfriend?

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''What makes you a great boyfriend?''

A chick gave me that question, so I got curious
1) What would be a good answer
2) What would sosuave guy answer
3) What makes you guys (on suave) a great boyfriend in your own terms
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The only answer if you have just met her.

"Slow down cow-girl, I'm not sure if I like you yet much less want to sleep with you."

It is always a good idea when a chick asks you difficult questions like this is to turn it sexual. And she how she responds.
 
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The boyfriend label, is for boys. I doesn't apply to me. (Acting insulted)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Silly questions. You could go into role playing a chode....

"oh I'd treat you like a princess" "I'd wash your car" "I'd do your homework", "bring you breakfast in bed (sexual nlp slip)" etc etc

Mocking chode behavior and chode probing questions thus covertly demonstrating that a chode you're not...
 
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"I wouldn't cheat on you that often and I'd make you breakfast assuming you like half-burnt toast"
 
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Pressure flip, what makes you a good gf? Then continue to ask her questions while avoiding answering hers.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Poon King said:
All you should care about is what makes a great MAN.

Being a great MAN should be your goal. Working to be a "great boyfriend" is the domain of white knights.
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Yes, is like asking...

What kind of knucklehead are you?

Either way, is still knucklehead.
 
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Von said:
''What makes you a great boyfriend?''

A chick gave me that question, so I got curious
1) What would be a good answer
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I would answer: 'Why should I care about being a great boyfriend?'

I could imagine at the funeral: 'He didn't accompish, create, or do anything with his life, but he sure was a great boyfriend. He bought his girlfriend flowers everyday, cooked for her, carried her purse, never upset her, and made sure she was always happy in the relationship.'

Brutal.
 
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Girl: What makes you a great boyfriend?
Old_skoolr: Something you'll never know.
 
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