Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Cause 80% of the communication is blocked when you hide behind a keyboard and screen...tryst type said:
Well if your writing skills are great then you can make the woman fantasize about you... Yeh its been done but most times it does not workout as hopedtryst type said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
exactlydopexile said:
Learn not to depend on the other person's reactions such as vocal tone or body language to decide on how to re-act. The problem that most guys have face to face is having that type of defensive interaction with women. Ever wonder why some guys can't seem to escalate? It's because they're waiting on her to make a forward progression either verbally or via body language so that they can follow it; totally defensive and reactionary.tryst type said:
very true info there..Francisco d'Anconia said:Learn not to depend on the other person's reactions such as vocal tone or body language to decide on how to re-act. The problem that most guys have face to face is having that type of defensive interaction with women. Ever wonder why some guys can't seem to escalate? It's because they're waiting on her to make a forward progression either verbally or via body language so that they can follow it; totally defensive and reactionary.
Learn to drive the conversation offensively and have her follow your lead, she will do it readily if she's interested. Since you are in the drivers seat it's easier to lead whether or not you are in person or face to face. You can take things in any direction you'd prefer and it would be up to her to follow you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
damn it LOL... I fixed it...tick37 said:
Key points:Francisco d'Anconia said:Learn not to depend on the other person's reactions such as vocal tone or body language to decide on how to re-act. The problem that most guys have face to face is having that type of defensive interaction with women. Ever wonder why some guys can't seem to escalate? It's because they're waiting on her to make a forward progression either verbally or via body language so that they can follow it; totally defensive and reactionary.
Learn to drive the conversation offensively and have her follow your lead, she will do it readily if she's interested. Since you are in the drivers seat it's easier to lead whether or not you are in person or face to face. You can take things in any direction you'd prefer and it would be up to her to follow you.
so you re unhappy with the fact that you can "easily" win a girl over in real life? would you rather have it the other way around?tryst type said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What don't you understand?tryst type said:
so conversate with her in a way to piss her off online?
You had better stick with face to face interactions.tryst type said:
haha so that's the elaboration?
No, what was posted earlier went into enough detail where it would be understood. If it wasn't and there's no specific questions about its premise, it just may not be the right type of medium for 'ya.tryst type said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.