You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cause 80% of the communication is blocked when you hide behind a keyboard and screen...tryst type said:
Well if your writing skills are great then you can make the woman fantasize about you... Yeh its been done but most times it does not workout as hopedtryst type said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
exactlydopexile said:
Learn not to depend on the other person's reactions such as vocal tone or body language to decide on how to re-act. The problem that most guys have face to face is having that type of defensive interaction with women. Ever wonder why some guys can't seem to escalate? It's because they're waiting on her to make a forward progression either verbally or via body language so that they can follow it; totally defensive and reactionary.tryst type said:
very true info there..Francisco d'Anconia said:Learn not to depend on the other person's reactions such as vocal tone or body language to decide on how to re-act. The problem that most guys have face to face is having that type of defensive interaction with women. Ever wonder why some guys can't seem to escalate? It's because they're waiting on her to make a forward progression either verbally or via body language so that they can follow it; totally defensive and reactionary.
Learn to drive the conversation offensively and have her follow your lead, she will do it readily if she's interested. Since you are in the drivers seat it's easier to lead whether or not you are in person or face to face. You can take things in any direction you'd prefer and it would be up to her to follow you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
damn it LOL... I fixed it...tick37 said:
Key points:Francisco d'Anconia said:Learn not to depend on the other person's reactions such as vocal tone or body language to decide on how to re-act. The problem that most guys have face to face is having that type of defensive interaction with women. Ever wonder why some guys can't seem to escalate? It's because they're waiting on her to make a forward progression either verbally or via body language so that they can follow it; totally defensive and reactionary.
Learn to drive the conversation offensively and have her follow your lead, she will do it readily if she's interested. Since you are in the drivers seat it's easier to lead whether or not you are in person or face to face. You can take things in any direction you'd prefer and it would be up to her to follow you.
so you re unhappy with the fact that you can "easily" win a girl over in real life? would you rather have it the other way around?tryst type said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What don't you understand?tryst type said:
so conversate with her in a way to piss her off online?
You had better stick with face to face interactions.tryst type said:
haha so that's the elaboration?
No, what was posted earlier went into enough detail where it would be understood. If it wasn't and there's no specific questions about its premise, it just may not be the right type of medium for 'ya.tryst type said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.