"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what line should i have used?

joecollapoppa

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Ok I usually see girls checking me out through their cars while I'm walking alone or with friends. How should I approach and what should I say. Since im kinda a clown, should i approach wit a hookers line for a joke? help me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Hey What your doing around here, Looking for a handsome guy to talk too?:cool:
 
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Originally posted by HHloser2
"Hey What your doing around here, Looking for a handsome guy to talk too?:cool:
Sorry.. I've been reading stuff like these.

Won't this seem to them like you're being too full of yourself? I mean, it would be funny if you are'nt handsome, it might get you somewhere..

But what if in any case you ARE handsome. Imo, it might feel like she might think you're too full of yourself.

But then again, i'm new, so educate me.. That's why I posted, so i can learn from you guys. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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