"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Work on your flow. Not thinking. When you go anywhere even the store use your senses more and less mind. Overtime you will become more calm and spontaneous. Its going to take time. Once you find your personal groove you will know what it feels like. People will respond better to you. Forget about women and what they look like. For this purpose anyhow.
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Not quite sure what you mean by then? Less thinking more spontaneous action? Using this advice trying to get woman how does it work
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ryan Adams said:
So your saying spin slates and if you get rejected by another woman your body language and overall character will truly show you dont give a fvck because you have another woman in line.
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Yes.

If you have a million dollars in the bank and lost a $100 bill, are you going to blow up and throw a fit and act desperate over it? Probably not. Fvck it....you have a million dollars. Who cares?

However if that $100 bill was all the money you had and lost it, you would surely mope around and be desperate in finding it. You NEEDED it which is where the neediness comes from. Its very valuable because its all you had.

Same goes with women. If you have 2, 3 or 4 options that you are actively seeing, and one starts acting disrespectful, you just use silence and distance and shift your attention to the other options. Or if its major disrespect, just tell her to fvck off and walk away.

Only having one option makes it very hard to just walk away. That is why a rotation is great. Even if its just to date several women and see if one of them becomes a prime LTR candidate.
 
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Yes.

If you have a million dollars in the bank and lost a $100 bill, are you going to blow up and throw a fit and act desperate over it? Probably not. Fvck it....you have a million dollars. Who cares?

However if that $100 bill was all the money you had and lost it, you would surely mope around and be desperate in finding it. You NEEDED it which is where the neediness comes from. Its very valuable because its all you had.

Same goes with women. If you have 2, 3 or 4 options that you are actively seeing, and one starts acting disrespectful, you just use silence and distance and shift your attention to the other options. Or if its major disrespect, just tell her to fvck off and walk away.

Only having one option makes it very hard to just walk away. That is why a rotation is great. Even if its just to date several women and see if one of them becomes a prime LTR candidate.
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Now all i need to do is start finding plates to spin. Thing is I catch feelings quick unfortunatly
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trying not to
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I'm going to call BS on this.

We all give a fvck to some extent if a hot girl calls us back or not... our brains naturally release dopamine when we get the exciting message from some hot woman we thought we never had a chance with. This by the very nature of it makes us addicted to these types of interactions. So i think when someone says they don't give a fvk they're either psychopaths or they're lying. I think it is more accurate to say... don't invest too much in whether or not that 1 woman writes to you... continue working on yourself and continue putting yourself out there...when a woman takes the bait... just try not to care more than she does. I like the analogy of the guy with 1 million dollars in the bank. Just figure each woman is worth $100.... if you lose $100 it's not that big of a deal. Don't invest more until they do. And remember NEVER go off of their words... only their ACTIONS.
 
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Don't think working out extremely hard will make much difference if you dont know how PickUp really works. You would need to study it and practice it and that way will get your more women than working out.
 
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well me being pretty lean i definitly notice attraction from hotter chicks. My other problem is I get to drunk. Not sloppy drunk nut drunk enough to not be 100%
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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