"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Work on your flow. Not thinking. When you go anywhere even the store use your senses more and less mind. Overtime you will become more calm and spontaneous. Its going to take time. Once you find your personal groove you will know what it feels like. People will respond better to you. Forget about women and what they look like. For this purpose anyhow.
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Not quite sure what you mean by then? Less thinking more spontaneous action? Using this advice trying to get woman how does it work
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ryan Adams said:
So your saying spin slates and if you get rejected by another woman your body language and overall character will truly show you dont give a fvck because you have another woman in line.
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Yes.

If you have a million dollars in the bank and lost a $100 bill, are you going to blow up and throw a fit and act desperate over it? Probably not. Fvck it....you have a million dollars. Who cares?

However if that $100 bill was all the money you had and lost it, you would surely mope around and be desperate in finding it. You NEEDED it which is where the neediness comes from. Its very valuable because its all you had.

Same goes with women. If you have 2, 3 or 4 options that you are actively seeing, and one starts acting disrespectful, you just use silence and distance and shift your attention to the other options. Or if its major disrespect, just tell her to fvck off and walk away.

Only having one option makes it very hard to just walk away. That is why a rotation is great. Even if its just to date several women and see if one of them becomes a prime LTR candidate.
 
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Yes.

If you have a million dollars in the bank and lost a $100 bill, are you going to blow up and throw a fit and act desperate over it? Probably not. Fvck it....you have a million dollars. Who cares?

However if that $100 bill was all the money you had and lost it, you would surely mope around and be desperate in finding it. You NEEDED it which is where the neediness comes from. Its very valuable because its all you had.

Same goes with women. If you have 2, 3 or 4 options that you are actively seeing, and one starts acting disrespectful, you just use silence and distance and shift your attention to the other options. Or if its major disrespect, just tell her to fvck off and walk away.

Only having one option makes it very hard to just walk away. That is why a rotation is great. Even if its just to date several women and see if one of them becomes a prime LTR candidate.
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Now all i need to do is start finding plates to spin. Thing is I catch feelings quick unfortunatly
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trying not to
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I'm going to call BS on this.

We all give a fvck to some extent if a hot girl calls us back or not... our brains naturally release dopamine when we get the exciting message from some hot woman we thought we never had a chance with. This by the very nature of it makes us addicted to these types of interactions. So i think when someone says they don't give a fvk they're either psychopaths or they're lying. I think it is more accurate to say... don't invest too much in whether or not that 1 woman writes to you... continue working on yourself and continue putting yourself out there...when a woman takes the bait... just try not to care more than she does. I like the analogy of the guy with 1 million dollars in the bank. Just figure each woman is worth $100.... if you lose $100 it's not that big of a deal. Don't invest more until they do. And remember NEVER go off of their words... only their ACTIONS.
 
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Don't think working out extremely hard will make much difference if you dont know how PickUp really works. You would need to study it and practice it and that way will get your more women than working out.
 
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well me being pretty lean i definitly notice attraction from hotter chicks. My other problem is I get to drunk. Not sloppy drunk nut drunk enough to not be 100%
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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