GoldenArrow
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In your experience, what traits do girls look for when they're hunting down a guy to sleep with for the night?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What kind of guys do girls want to have one night stands with?
- Thread starter GoldenArrow
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
robotmoogabi
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Just a good looking guy who ideally isn't super boring
backseatjuan
Banned
Good looking don't cut it. If it's all about looks, then a guy with big ****. ONS is all about her knees shaking and no attachment afterwards. She should want to call cops on you after sex. Too many guys all about eating dinners, gifts, and cuddling, and emotional attachment. This don't mean all sex talk, meet and bang, it means seduce, fck and fck off.
She wants a sexual man.
She wants a sexual man.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I think it varies but when it comes to ONS, the priority is a good looking guy with a nice body and sexual vibe. However some Women are so backed up and horny that they try to get pretty drunk and hook up with a decent guy, does not have to be the really good looking dude just good enough.
As Medina pointed out above, maybe it's not as popular today but it's not just an easy thing to pull off on a consistent basis. I was able to get consistent ONS when my body was at an extreme definition and my face was very defined but over time of course alcohol fvcked me up a bit. Anyway, the point is that now a days Guys want a rotation of Women who are willing to have casual sex with them without a promise of a long term relationship. To go even further, All the Women know you are ****ing around and be ok with it.
I use the analogy of baseball where your starting picture (Hottest Girl) is at the forefront but once she starts acting up, you've got the backup bullpen to reach out to (Girls on the bench ready to play ball)
As Medina pointed out above, maybe it's not as popular today but it's not just an easy thing to pull off on a consistent basis. I was able to get consistent ONS when my body was at an extreme definition and my face was very defined but over time of course alcohol fvcked me up a bit. Anyway, the point is that now a days Guys want a rotation of Women who are willing to have casual sex with them without a promise of a long term relationship. To go even further, All the Women know you are ****ing around and be ok with it.
I use the analogy of baseball where your starting picture (Hottest Girl) is at the forefront but once she starts acting up, you've got the backup bullpen to reach out to (Girls on the bench ready to play ball)
marmel75
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A guy who appears to know what they are doing sexually...or one that is muscular...scientifically speaking most women cheat with muscular dudes.
The Duke
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The guy must be somewhat attractive to the female. He must be confident and make them feel comfortable. He must also be fun, light hearted, and show no desperation or clingyness. A good dose of charm helps to as well as something about you that allows you to stand out from the crowd.
This more then anything else.