GoldenArrow
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In your experience, what traits do girls look for when they're hunting down a guy to sleep with for the night?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What kind of guys do girls want to have one night stands with?
- Thread starter GoldenArrow
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
robotmoogabi
Don Juan
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Just a good looking guy who ideally isn't super boring
backseatjuan
Banned
Good looking don't cut it. If it's all about looks, then a guy with big ****. ONS is all about her knees shaking and no attachment afterwards. She should want to call cops on you after sex. Too many guys all about eating dinners, gifts, and cuddling, and emotional attachment. This don't mean all sex talk, meet and bang, it means seduce, fck and fck off.
She wants a sexual man.
She wants a sexual man.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I think it varies but when it comes to ONS, the priority is a good looking guy with a nice body and sexual vibe. However some Women are so backed up and horny that they try to get pretty drunk and hook up with a decent guy, does not have to be the really good looking dude just good enough.
As Medina pointed out above, maybe it's not as popular today but it's not just an easy thing to pull off on a consistent basis. I was able to get consistent ONS when my body was at an extreme definition and my face was very defined but over time of course alcohol fvcked me up a bit. Anyway, the point is that now a days Guys want a rotation of Women who are willing to have casual sex with them without a promise of a long term relationship. To go even further, All the Women know you are ****ing around and be ok with it.
I use the analogy of baseball where your starting picture (Hottest Girl) is at the forefront but once she starts acting up, you've got the backup bullpen to reach out to (Girls on the bench ready to play ball)
As Medina pointed out above, maybe it's not as popular today but it's not just an easy thing to pull off on a consistent basis. I was able to get consistent ONS when my body was at an extreme definition and my face was very defined but over time of course alcohol fvcked me up a bit. Anyway, the point is that now a days Guys want a rotation of Women who are willing to have casual sex with them without a promise of a long term relationship. To go even further, All the Women know you are ****ing around and be ok with it.
I use the analogy of baseball where your starting picture (Hottest Girl) is at the forefront but once she starts acting up, you've got the backup bullpen to reach out to (Girls on the bench ready to play ball)
marmel75
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A guy who appears to know what they are doing sexually...or one that is muscular...scientifically speaking most women cheat with muscular dudes.
The Duke
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The guy must be somewhat attractive to the female. He must be confident and make them feel comfortable. He must also be fun, light hearted, and show no desperation or clingyness. A good dose of charm helps to as well as something about you that allows you to stand out from the crowd.
This more then anything else.