GoldenArrow
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In your experience, what traits do girls look for when they're hunting down a guy to sleep with for the night?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What kind of guys do girls want to have one night stands with?
- Thread starter GoldenArrow
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
robotmoogabi
Don Juan
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Just a good looking guy who ideally isn't super boring
backseatjuan
Banned
Good looking don't cut it. If it's all about looks, then a guy with big ****. ONS is all about her knees shaking and no attachment afterwards. She should want to call cops on you after sex. Too many guys all about eating dinners, gifts, and cuddling, and emotional attachment. This don't mean all sex talk, meet and bang, it means seduce, fck and fck off.
She wants a sexual man.
She wants a sexual man.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I think it varies but when it comes to ONS, the priority is a good looking guy with a nice body and sexual vibe. However some Women are so backed up and horny that they try to get pretty drunk and hook up with a decent guy, does not have to be the really good looking dude just good enough.
As Medina pointed out above, maybe it's not as popular today but it's not just an easy thing to pull off on a consistent basis. I was able to get consistent ONS when my body was at an extreme definition and my face was very defined but over time of course alcohol fvcked me up a bit. Anyway, the point is that now a days Guys want a rotation of Women who are willing to have casual sex with them without a promise of a long term relationship. To go even further, All the Women know you are ****ing around and be ok with it.
I use the analogy of baseball where your starting picture (Hottest Girl) is at the forefront but once she starts acting up, you've got the backup bullpen to reach out to (Girls on the bench ready to play ball)
As Medina pointed out above, maybe it's not as popular today but it's not just an easy thing to pull off on a consistent basis. I was able to get consistent ONS when my body was at an extreme definition and my face was very defined but over time of course alcohol fvcked me up a bit. Anyway, the point is that now a days Guys want a rotation of Women who are willing to have casual sex with them without a promise of a long term relationship. To go even further, All the Women know you are ****ing around and be ok with it.
I use the analogy of baseball where your starting picture (Hottest Girl) is at the forefront but once she starts acting up, you've got the backup bullpen to reach out to (Girls on the bench ready to play ball)
marmel75
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A guy who appears to know what they are doing sexually...or one that is muscular...scientifically speaking most women cheat with muscular dudes.
The Duke
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The guy must be somewhat attractive to the female. He must be confident and make them feel comfortable. He must also be fun, light hearted, and show no desperation or clingyness. A good dose of charm helps to as well as something about you that allows you to stand out from the crowd.
This more then anything else.