_sideways_
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I know its vague.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what keeps you guys going?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Goals. The visions I have of myself in future, the visions I see myself becoming, I know that it's inevitable. I will become who I've always wanted to become. I won’t let myself end where I started, I won’t let myself finish where I began. I know what's within me. Even if others can’t see it yet. I will become what I know I am.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Self-love..I wouldn't call it Narccacism. I use to love people and life, but people and reality changed that for me. I hate the system and people in short lol. I still love life but only because what keeps me goin is knowing I'm doing what I can to love it through positive action and occasional indulgence and to help people(people that deserve help) in such a dark twisted reality. Spreading good vibes would be the short answer for a vague question like that.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dustmuffin
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A need to eat and keep a roof over my head keeps me going.
The strange and abstract desire to be something and make something meaningful. I do not know what it is, what, how, or why... But there is a sense of purpose even when faced with the notion that life is ultimately finite.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
CrimsonPanther
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i wanna die a wiser person than when i was born. self improvement keeps me going. to see how high i can reach before the end
dustmuffin
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Having a housekeeper come in a few times a month isn't expensive. I have one. Check into it you may be surprised.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.