_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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I know its vague.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what keeps you guys going?
- Thread starter _sideways_
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Goals. The visions I have of myself in future, the visions I see myself becoming, I know that it's inevitable. I will become who I've always wanted to become. I won’t let myself end where I started, I won’t let myself finish where I began. I know what's within me. Even if others can’t see it yet. I will become what I know I am.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Self-love..I wouldn't call it Narccacism. I use to love people and life, but people and reality changed that for me. I hate the system and people in short lol. I still love life but only because what keeps me goin is knowing I'm doing what I can to love it through positive action and occasional indulgence and to help people(people that deserve help) in such a dark twisted reality. Spreading good vibes would be the short answer for a vague question like that.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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A need to eat and keep a roof over my head keeps me going.
The strange and abstract desire to be something and make something meaningful. I do not know what it is, what, how, or why... But there is a sense of purpose even when faced with the notion that life is ultimately finite.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
CrimsonPanther
Senior Don Juan
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i wanna die a wiser person than when i was born. self improvement keeps me going. to see how high i can reach before the end
dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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Having a housekeeper come in a few times a month isn't expensive. I have one. Check into it you may be surprised.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.