_sideways_
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I know its vague.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what keeps you guys going?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Goals. The visions I have of myself in future, the visions I see myself becoming, I know that it's inevitable. I will become who I've always wanted to become. I won’t let myself end where I started, I won’t let myself finish where I began. I know what's within me. Even if others can’t see it yet. I will become what I know I am.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Self-love..I wouldn't call it Narccacism. I use to love people and life, but people and reality changed that for me. I hate the system and people in short lol. I still love life but only because what keeps me goin is knowing I'm doing what I can to love it through positive action and occasional indulgence and to help people(people that deserve help) in such a dark twisted reality. Spreading good vibes would be the short answer for a vague question like that.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dustmuffin
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A need to eat and keep a roof over my head keeps me going.
The strange and abstract desire to be something and make something meaningful. I do not know what it is, what, how, or why... But there is a sense of purpose even when faced with the notion that life is ultimately finite.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
CrimsonPanther
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i wanna die a wiser person than when i was born. self improvement keeps me going. to see how high i can reach before the end
dustmuffin
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Having a housekeeper come in a few times a month isn't expensive. I have one. Check into it you may be surprised.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.