_sideways_
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I know its vague.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what keeps you guys going?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Goals. The visions I have of myself in future, the visions I see myself becoming, I know that it's inevitable. I will become who I've always wanted to become. I won’t let myself end where I started, I won’t let myself finish where I began. I know what's within me. Even if others can’t see it yet. I will become what I know I am.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Self-love..I wouldn't call it Narccacism. I use to love people and life, but people and reality changed that for me. I hate the system and people in short lol. I still love life but only because what keeps me goin is knowing I'm doing what I can to love it through positive action and occasional indulgence and to help people(people that deserve help) in such a dark twisted reality. Spreading good vibes would be the short answer for a vague question like that.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
I'm also thankful to be an immigrant here and raised by hardcore Soviet parents who taught me values of respecting and helping people.. instead of the east coast way where I live "me me me me f0ck u me me me" I would love to see one of these entitled westerners spend a week in the country I'm from. They would get their jaw broken in 3 hours.. And I'm not even exaggerating. So trying to meet like minded people with similar values is another thing that keeps me going.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dustmuffin
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A need to eat and keep a roof over my head keeps me going.
The strange and abstract desire to be something and make something meaningful. I do not know what it is, what, how, or why... But there is a sense of purpose even when faced with the notion that life is ultimately finite.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
And I enjoy life and living... The meaning of life is found in every moment of living. The experiences, the sights, the sounds, the feelings. I only have one life, one chance to experience all of this and to savor it all.
CrimsonPanther
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i wanna die a wiser person than when i was born. self improvement keeps me going. to see how high i can reach before the end
dustmuffin
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Having a housekeeper come in a few times a month isn't expensive. I have one. Check into it you may be surprised.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.