This girl that im trying to get from another school, we dont see each other very often and i only talk to her when she starts a convo with me on phone/online. But then she always say that shes gonna "hang out" with me during the weekends and say like shes going to come to my house or something but she never shows up. Its been 2-3x and i just dont know what to say.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is this??
- Thread starter Oni
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