"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oni

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This girl that im trying to get from another school, we dont see each other very often and i only talk to her when she starts a convo with me on phone/online. But then she always say that shes gonna "hang out" with me during the weekends and say like shes going to come to my house or something but she never shows up. Its been 2-3x and i just dont know what to say.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Oni
This girl that im trying to get from another school, we dont see each other very often and i only talk to her when she starts a convo with me on phone/online. But then she always say that shes gonna "hang out" with me during the weekends and say like shes going to come to my house or something but she never shows up. Its been 2-3x and i just dont know what to say.
uh no, she has no il and she wasting ur time.
 

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I got one short (big) word for you

NEXT!
 

Oni

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i know i know but its just so hard nexting her. I am the only guy where she always like flirting with thoough.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Oni
i know i know but its just so hard nexting her. I am the only guy where she always like flirting with thoough.
No, you're just the only guy stupid enough to still give her that attention.
 
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