This girl that im trying to get from another school, we dont see each other very often and i only talk to her when she starts a convo with me on phone/online. But then she always say that shes gonna "hang out" with me during the weekends and say like shes going to come to my house or something but she never shows up. Its been 2-3x and i just dont know what to say.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Thread starter Oni
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