At work today I was in the break room eating on my lunch. In walks another two women employees. One makes a comment out of no where in their conversation, "blinkwatt and I are getting married"!? I havent heard anyone joke like that about me,at least not at work. Iam normally good with finding the meaning behind women's actions but I could use some input on this one. Is this normaly flirting or does it mean something more?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What is this about?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Either way, I'd say its a good sign. Get over there and talk to your bride!
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You're right.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tomatoes
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900th Post....god i need to find something to do at work 
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
Oh i had a girl say this, except the 'joke' went on for over a month and she kept trying to hold hands with me and hug me.