At work today I was in the break room eating on my lunch. In walks another two women employees. One makes a comment out of no where in their conversation, "blinkwatt and I are getting married"!? I havent heard anyone joke like that about me,at least not at work. Iam normally good with finding the meaning behind women's actions but I could use some input on this one. Is this normaly flirting or does it mean something more?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Either way, I'd say its a good sign. Get over there and talk to your bride!
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You're right.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tomatoes
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900th Post....god i need to find something to do at work 
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
Oh i had a girl say this, except the 'joke' went on for over a month and she kept trying to hold hands with me and hug me.