At work today I was in the break room eating on my lunch. In walks another two women employees. One makes a comment out of no where in their conversation, "blinkwatt and I are getting married"!? I havent heard anyone joke like that about me,at least not at work. Iam normally good with finding the meaning behind women's actions but I could use some input on this one. Is this normaly flirting or does it mean something more?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What is this about?
- Thread starter blinkwatt
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Either way, I'd say its a good sign. Get over there and talk to your bride!
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You're right.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tomatoes
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900th Post....god i need to find something to do at work 
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
Oh i had a girl say this, except the 'joke' went on for over a month and she kept trying to hold hands with me and hug me.