At work today I was in the break room eating on my lunch. In walks another two women employees. One makes a comment out of no where in their conversation, "blinkwatt and I are getting married"!? I havent heard anyone joke like that about me,at least not at work. Iam normally good with finding the meaning behind women's actions but I could use some input on this one. Is this normaly flirting or does it mean something more?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Either way, I'd say its a good sign. Get over there and talk to your bride!
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You're right.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tomatoes
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900th Post....god i need to find something to do at work 
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
Oh i had a girl say this, except the 'joke' went on for over a month and she kept trying to hold hands with me and hug me.