At work today I was in the break room eating on my lunch. In walks another two women employees. One makes a comment out of no where in their conversation, "blinkwatt and I are getting married"!? I havent heard anyone joke like that about me,at least not at work. Iam normally good with finding the meaning behind women's actions but I could use some input on this one. Is this normaly flirting or does it mean something more?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What is this about?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Either way, I'd say its a good sign. Get over there and talk to your bride!
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You're right.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
It is now though. You pointed it out. lol.
Just go talk to them.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tomatoes
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900th Post....god i need to find something to do at work 
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
Just play along with it matey. It is casual flirting. All good fun. Can be seen as an IOI. Pursue a little and see what happens.....
Sarge On!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
Oh i had a girl say this, except the 'joke' went on for over a month and she kept trying to hold hands with me and hug me.