"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the best way to make a move on a girl during the movie?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rising4status

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What do I tease her about or what playfully questions would I ask when we sitting together?
 

HaleyBaron

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I can tell that this girl is not into you. But I respect that the men are doing their best to salvage it for you. If it was me, I get very handsy on the first date. I take fact knowing this by doing it anyway. It's mostly experience at this point but I tend to do these things even if she resists or tells me to stop. I know I'm better than her, and she will not even try anything in a crowded theater unless she knows you're creeper level. If she does try that shouting or moody reactions, I just walk out on her.

But for general advice, arm first. Get her comfortable. Make it seem natural. Don't show hunger or thirst. Get more bold. Ignore her resistances. Get more handsy. All of this is done cause I know what I want and know I have other options. It cannot be taught, but something you just do.
 
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I do know of a girl who did refuse, the very first kiss from her BF, then on the 2nd time they go out she kissed him, the dude told me after even her didn't know why she did on the 2nd time(don't belive, but let's its slide for the tale), I know how he reacted he didn't care, and that possible picked her interest.

since date movies are already something bad to do, I say invite her out again and try to kiss her again, if the 2nd time fail then you move, it alwyas good to see the girl background and what you want from it, if she belive you are a keeper she will play games harder, best you can do is make her notice you don't care for her petty little games
 

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The best way to make a move on a girl in a movie:

Dont go to a movie. If you are of age, take her for a couple of drinks and escalate.

Movies (unless they are at your place) are the worst possible date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You gotta break the touch barrier and establish yourself as a physical, touchy person. Of course SHE has to be enthusiastically consenting.

Hug. Early and often.

When walking, offer her your arm it's pretty neutral in terms of forwardness, but positions you as a protector.

Dancing in the kitchen...serious. Learn some fun social swing moves. It ups your kino and gets her heart rate up. Music elicits an emotion and dancing well suggests good sex skills.

Backrubs, footrubs and other sensual but non sexual massage.

Sharing a blanket during the movie in your or her home , letting her use your chest as a pillow, running your hands through her hair.
 

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I think I messed up with this girl but i want to know how do you go about it I tried kissing her she wouldnt let me and i tried massage her and then linger to her ***** and breast and she would not lrt me. I tried to kiss her when she left she wouldnt let me she said she needs more time. How do you usually do it? And what is the longest you would give a girl before nexting her without sex?
I’d give her about two minutes. It sounds like you are trying to buy her attention with movies (please tell me you are not buying her dinner). Don’t reward her with expensive movies when she has done nothing to deserve the reward. Invite her out for a drink during the week. This one is probably a lost cause. I’d ditch her for at least 4 weeks and look for someone else. Maybe she’ll come back around. If she does, I would try the a restart with a drink during the week and save weekends for women who deserve rewards.
 

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If she is rejecting kisses and still reaches out after to him having done that, he's in orbiter status. Going ghost is the only way to turn things around from there, if it can be done at all.
I agree. Reaching out to you is not good behavior. She may just be bored. In any case, you have to reestablish from the beginning with better game. At this moment, you should treat her like a suspect where she needs to prove her interest in you because you have better things to do than entertain her. If you don’t have better things to do, you should get some.
 

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I think I messed up with this girl but i want to know how do you go about it I tried kissing her she wouldnt let me and i tried massage her and then linger to her ***** and breast and she would not lrt me. I tried to kiss her when she left she wouldnt let me she said she needs more time. How do you usually do it? And what is the longest you would give a girl before nexting her without sex?
What part of rapey don't you get?

Lmr means #next
 

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3rd date, at your fvcking house, and no sex?

This case has already been dismissed. Go out, start dating other women and make sure you won't forget this lesson.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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