"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is the best compliment a woman gives a man?

What is the best compliment a woman can give a man?

  • Cute

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Handsome

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • Beautiful

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Gorgeous

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • Sexy

    Votes: 7 29.2%
  • Hot

    Votes: 4 16.7%
  • (Her) Hero

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • All compliments are the same IOI

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Other (please specify)

    Votes: 3 12.5%

  • Total voters
    24

bigneil

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Ever wonder where the compliments girls give you rank? This poll seeks to find out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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loveshogun

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The best compliment: any that she chooses to give while her mouth is full ;-)
 

Eternal_water

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Hot!

On your list, cute would be the worst, along with sweet, sensitive and nice.
 

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Tell her she is having a sexy PERSONALLITY. Never give her a compliment on her looks, at least not too soon i would say since she knows she is looking good and it has been told her by 1000 other guys.
 

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Eternal_water said:
Hot!

On your list, cute would be the worst, along with sweet, sensitive and nice.

I actually find 'cute' to be a good thing. Of course hot, sexy, or whatever else is also good. Any compliment a woman gives you on your looks is good. Unless it's like "you're so pudgy and I find that so adorably cute!" I guess it's all in the presentation of the word.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LittleBigOne

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Damn, i misunderstood the question...my English bites. But the best compliment a woman can give is hot/sexy. Then she is attracted for sure in some way.
 

marmel75

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I was banging this girl for the firat time and I told her to get ready because I was about to unleash the beast, and she laughed and was like "whatever". After I hammered her for an hour straight she tells me as we are laying there, "you know what...you really ARE a beast! "
 

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The biggest compliment a girl can give a guy is to ask him if he’s gay. When you’re doing things right, you will get asked this question. It means she is very much attracted but her hamster is spinning around wondering why she’s not getting attention.
 

Eternal_water

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LittleBigOne said:
Tell her she is having a sexy PERSONALLITY. Never give her a compliment on her looks, at least not too soon i would say since she knows she is looking good and it has been told her by 1000 other guys.
Hmm...........I want to have sex with your personality?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ive been called all these things but i put more weight in how she says it
 

synergy1

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In2theGame said:
Ive been called all these things but i put more weight in how she says it
if it gets you laid, than id say thats good enough. Getting called hot usually results in some action.
 

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Deep Dish said:
The biggest compliment a girl can give a guy is to ask him if he’s gay. When you’re doing things right, you will get asked this question. It means she is very much attracted but her hamster is spinning around wondering why she’s not getting attention.
got this other day - was true ioi
 

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It depends on what you want from this girl.

If it's someone you want a relationship with, I would say 'Hero' is the best. I would also throw in 'Other' as a personal nickname she gives you (assuming it's positive and she gets that little smile every time she says it).

If it's just someone you want to get in bed, I think the two options above, along with 'Hot' and 'Sexy' are pretty equal. I personally love when a girl I find attractive calls me sexy. You know exactly what she's thinking about with that one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My favorite is when she says "Isn't he sexy?" to her hot friends, and they agree.

Ideally she also says you're her hero - watch for that one - it comes off as more subtle but usually means she is seriously falling for you.
 

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Your a leader, you seem to have all the answers, "its something about you that just drives me crazy" .. Things of that nature ..
 
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