"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is the best compliment a woman gives a man?

What is the best compliment a woman can give a man?

  • Cute

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Handsome

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • Beautiful

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Gorgeous

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • Sexy

    Votes: 7 29.2%
  • Hot

    Votes: 4 16.7%
  • (Her) Hero

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • All compliments are the same IOI

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Other (please specify)

    Votes: 3 12.5%

  • Total voters
    24

bigneil

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Ever wonder where the compliments girls give you rank? This poll seeks to find out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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loveshogun

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The best compliment: any that she chooses to give while her mouth is full ;-)
 

Eternal_water

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Hot!

On your list, cute would be the worst, along with sweet, sensitive and nice.
 

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Tell her she is having a sexy PERSONALLITY. Never give her a compliment on her looks, at least not too soon i would say since she knows she is looking good and it has been told her by 1000 other guys.
 

SoSuave666

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Eternal_water said:
Hot!

On your list, cute would be the worst, along with sweet, sensitive and nice.

I actually find 'cute' to be a good thing. Of course hot, sexy, or whatever else is also good. Any compliment a woman gives you on your looks is good. Unless it's like "you're so pudgy and I find that so adorably cute!" I guess it's all in the presentation of the word.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LittleBigOne

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Damn, i misunderstood the question...my English bites. But the best compliment a woman can give is hot/sexy. Then she is attracted for sure in some way.
 

marmel75

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I was banging this girl for the firat time and I told her to get ready because I was about to unleash the beast, and she laughed and was like "whatever". After I hammered her for an hour straight she tells me as we are laying there, "you know what...you really ARE a beast! "
 

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The biggest compliment a girl can give a guy is to ask him if he’s gay. When you’re doing things right, you will get asked this question. It means she is very much attracted but her hamster is spinning around wondering why she’s not getting attention.
 

Eternal_water

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LittleBigOne said:
Tell her she is having a sexy PERSONALLITY. Never give her a compliment on her looks, at least not too soon i would say since she knows she is looking good and it has been told her by 1000 other guys.
Hmm...........I want to have sex with your personality?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ive been called all these things but i put more weight in how she says it
 

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In2theGame said:
Ive been called all these things but i put more weight in how she says it
if it gets you laid, than id say thats good enough. Getting called hot usually results in some action.
 

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Deep Dish said:
The biggest compliment a girl can give a guy is to ask him if he’s gay. When you’re doing things right, you will get asked this question. It means she is very much attracted but her hamster is spinning around wondering why she’s not getting attention.
got this other day - was true ioi
 

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It depends on what you want from this girl.

If it's someone you want a relationship with, I would say 'Hero' is the best. I would also throw in 'Other' as a personal nickname she gives you (assuming it's positive and she gets that little smile every time she says it).

If it's just someone you want to get in bed, I think the two options above, along with 'Hot' and 'Sexy' are pretty equal. I personally love when a girl I find attractive calls me sexy. You know exactly what she's thinking about with that one.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My favorite is when she says "Isn't he sexy?" to her hot friends, and they agree.

Ideally she also says you're her hero - watch for that one - it comes off as more subtle but usually means she is seriously falling for you.
 

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Your a leader, you seem to have all the answers, "its something about you that just drives me crazy" .. Things of that nature ..
 
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