"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is "real"sex, and what is not.

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"Now, I can describe what real sex may look like, but I don’t want to write erotic literature. As a side note, I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

We know that today "romance" novels has nothing to do with romance, but instead women use it as a tool for their fantasies. (Like men use porn, women like this stuff).

But what does the author mean when She sais
"I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

Which are those "good" works mentioned?


ps: This author has also a topic on https://substack.com/home/post/p-142288595 seduction. It would be interesting to know if there is something good here, or not. (A friend of mine told me this is true ****)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Now, I can describe what real sex may look like, but I don’t want to write erotic literature. As a side note, I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

We know that today "romance" novels has nothing to do with romance, but instead women use it as a tool for their fantasies. (Like men use porn, women like this stuff).

But what does the author mean when She sais
"I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

Which are those "good" works mentioned?


ps: This author has also a topic on https://substack.com/home/post/p-142288595 seduction. It would be interesting to know if there is something good here, or not. (A friend of mine told me this is true ****)
Vague shyte. Tell me..what is real sex ?
 

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Real sex for starters = genuine desire from a WOMAN. Your d1xk size doesn't matter that much, it's the overall picture of you she has in her mind..she gotta be soaking when she hears your name. After that you should alway be in her top3, and leave a everlasting impression.

Real sex has very little to do with actual intercourse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They are stretchier than you might think.
I've had ones that I tried for almost an hour to put it in their ass and it wouldn't go in...

Granted it was their first time...I guess they make sure it's opened up a lot before they shoot those scenes
 

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I've had ones that I tried for almost an hour to put it in their ass and it wouldn't go in...
More the rule than the exception. Thus, even seasoned porn stars put in a butt plug for an hour or two, before shooting a scene
 

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They are well plied and lubed with intoxicants. Plus the ladies still lust after the male performers even if paid. The dudes are usually toned and thick.
Those are obtainable ideals. Become leaner and upgrade your c0cksmithing game (Kegels, stretches, endurance)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They are well plied and lubed with intoxicants
And when she has second thoughts a week later, after her friend at Oberlin emails her a video of Andrea Dworkin's lectures, you'll be promptly arrested, successfully prosecuted, then shipped off to San Quentin for a minimum of 15 years. Where you'll spend a great deal of time "exploring your own sexuality", with the unsolicited aid of The Booty Warrior


Getting a chick drunk or stoned, right before you get into her pants, was playing Russian Roulette with one's freedom even BEFORE MeToo. In the cultural climate we inhabit today, it's practically suicide
 

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I don’t even know what this first message of the thread is about, but.

For me “real sex” is what happens after you have seduced the woman’s mind, moved onto more physical stuff, and now she is cutely begging you to fxck her.
 

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And when she has second thoughts a week later, after her friend at Oberlin emails her a video of Andrea Dworkin's lectures, you'll be promptly arrested, successfully prosecuted, then shipped off to San Quentin for a minimum of 15 years. Where you'll spend a great deal of time "exploring your own sexuality", with the unsolicited aid of The Booty Warrior


Getting a chick drunk or stoned, right before you get into her pants, was playing Russian Roulette with one's freedom even BEFORE MeToo. In the cultural climate we inhabit today, it's practically suicide
Gulliable.

them lot know the ins and outs legally and figuratively. Contracts, money and party vibe. Miami porn shoots.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Real Sex = the sex I give a woman.
Not real sex = what all you other fckrs give woman.
 

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To me, an act of sex is a gal physically making my Mr. Happy spit up, even as a starfish canal.
 
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