"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is "real"sex, and what is not.

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"Now, I can describe what real sex may look like, but I don’t want to write erotic literature. As a side note, I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

We know that today "romance" novels has nothing to do with romance, but instead women use it as a tool for their fantasies. (Like men use porn, women like this stuff).

But what does the author mean when She sais
"I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

Which are those "good" works mentioned?


ps: This author has also a topic on https://substack.com/home/post/p-142288595 seduction. It would be interesting to know if there is something good here, or not. (A friend of mine told me this is true ****)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Now, I can describe what real sex may look like, but I don’t want to write erotic literature. As a side note, I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

We know that today "romance" novels has nothing to do with romance, but instead women use it as a tool for their fantasies. (Like men use porn, women like this stuff).

But what does the author mean when She sais
"I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

Which are those "good" works mentioned?


ps: This author has also a topic on https://substack.com/home/post/p-142288595 seduction. It would be interesting to know if there is something good here, or not. (A friend of mine told me this is true ****)
Vague shyte. Tell me..what is real sex ?
 

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Real sex for starters = genuine desire from a WOMAN. Your d1xk size doesn't matter that much, it's the overall picture of you she has in her mind..she gotta be soaking when she hears your name. After that you should alway be in her top3, and leave a everlasting impression.

Real sex has very little to do with actual intercourse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They are stretchier than you might think.
I've had ones that I tried for almost an hour to put it in their ass and it wouldn't go in...

Granted it was their first time...I guess they make sure it's opened up a lot before they shoot those scenes
 

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I've had ones that I tried for almost an hour to put it in their ass and it wouldn't go in...
More the rule than the exception. Thus, even seasoned porn stars put in a butt plug for an hour or two, before shooting a scene
 

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They are well plied and lubed with intoxicants. Plus the ladies still lust after the male performers even if paid. The dudes are usually toned and thick.
Those are obtainable ideals. Become leaner and upgrade your c0cksmithing game (Kegels, stretches, endurance)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They are well plied and lubed with intoxicants
And when she has second thoughts a week later, after her friend at Oberlin emails her a video of Andrea Dworkin's lectures, you'll be promptly arrested, successfully prosecuted, then shipped off to San Quentin for a minimum of 15 years. Where you'll spend a great deal of time "exploring your own sexuality", with the unsolicited aid of The Booty Warrior


Getting a chick drunk or stoned, right before you get into her pants, was playing Russian Roulette with one's freedom even BEFORE MeToo. In the cultural climate we inhabit today, it's practically suicide
 

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I don’t even know what this first message of the thread is about, but.

For me “real sex” is what happens after you have seduced the woman’s mind, moved onto more physical stuff, and now she is cutely begging you to fxck her.
 

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And when she has second thoughts a week later, after her friend at Oberlin emails her a video of Andrea Dworkin's lectures, you'll be promptly arrested, successfully prosecuted, then shipped off to San Quentin for a minimum of 15 years. Where you'll spend a great deal of time "exploring your own sexuality", with the unsolicited aid of The Booty Warrior


Getting a chick drunk or stoned, right before you get into her pants, was playing Russian Roulette with one's freedom even BEFORE MeToo. In the cultural climate we inhabit today, it's practically suicide
Gulliable.

them lot know the ins and outs legally and figuratively. Contracts, money and party vibe. Miami porn shoots.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Real Sex = the sex I give a woman.
Not real sex = what all you other fckrs give woman.
 

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To me, an act of sex is a gal physically making my Mr. Happy spit up, even as a starfish canal.
 
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