"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is "real"sex, and what is not.

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"Now, I can describe what real sex may look like, but I don’t want to write erotic literature. As a side note, I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

We know that today "romance" novels has nothing to do with romance, but instead women use it as a tool for their fantasies. (Like men use porn, women like this stuff).

But what does the author mean when She sais
"I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

Which are those "good" works mentioned?


ps: This author has also a topic on https://substack.com/home/post/p-142288595 seduction. It would be interesting to know if there is something good here, or not. (A friend of mine told me this is true ****)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Now, I can describe what real sex may look like, but I don’t want to write erotic literature. As a side note, I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

We know that today "romance" novels has nothing to do with romance, but instead women use it as a tool for their fantasies. (Like men use porn, women like this stuff).

But what does the author mean when She sais
"I'd advise that if you are a man, you can start to understand some of the internal circuitry of the female sexual mind by reading works from unpublished authors online - written by women, for women. I emphasise that it should be “unpublished” because once a work is published for mass consumption, it is heavily edited to sell as many copies as possible. There is some resemblance to it, and you can take away many key points, but it loses its authenticity and is marketed to the average hypersexualized consumer."

Which are those "good" works mentioned?


ps: This author has also a topic on https://substack.com/home/post/p-142288595 seduction. It would be interesting to know if there is something good here, or not. (A friend of mine told me this is true ****)
Vague shyte. Tell me..what is real sex ?
 

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Real sex for starters = genuine desire from a WOMAN. Your d1xk size doesn't matter that much, it's the overall picture of you she has in her mind..she gotta be soaking when she hears your name. After that you should alway be in her top3, and leave a everlasting impression.

Real sex has very little to do with actual intercourse.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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They are stretchier than you might think.
I've had ones that I tried for almost an hour to put it in their ass and it wouldn't go in...

Granted it was their first time...I guess they make sure it's opened up a lot before they shoot those scenes
 

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I've had ones that I tried for almost an hour to put it in their ass and it wouldn't go in...
More the rule than the exception. Thus, even seasoned porn stars put in a butt plug for an hour or two, before shooting a scene
 

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They are well plied and lubed with intoxicants. Plus the ladies still lust after the male performers even if paid. The dudes are usually toned and thick.
Those are obtainable ideals. Become leaner and upgrade your c0cksmithing game (Kegels, stretches, endurance)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They are well plied and lubed with intoxicants
And when she has second thoughts a week later, after her friend at Oberlin emails her a video of Andrea Dworkin's lectures, you'll be promptly arrested, successfully prosecuted, then shipped off to San Quentin for a minimum of 15 years. Where you'll spend a great deal of time "exploring your own sexuality", with the unsolicited aid of The Booty Warrior


Getting a chick drunk or stoned, right before you get into her pants, was playing Russian Roulette with one's freedom even BEFORE MeToo. In the cultural climate we inhabit today, it's practically suicide
 

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I don’t even know what this first message of the thread is about, but.

For me “real sex” is what happens after you have seduced the woman’s mind, moved onto more physical stuff, and now she is cutely begging you to fxck her.
 

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And when she has second thoughts a week later, after her friend at Oberlin emails her a video of Andrea Dworkin's lectures, you'll be promptly arrested, successfully prosecuted, then shipped off to San Quentin for a minimum of 15 years. Where you'll spend a great deal of time "exploring your own sexuality", with the unsolicited aid of The Booty Warrior


Getting a chick drunk or stoned, right before you get into her pants, was playing Russian Roulette with one's freedom even BEFORE MeToo. In the cultural climate we inhabit today, it's practically suicide
Gulliable.

them lot know the ins and outs legally and figuratively. Contracts, money and party vibe. Miami porn shoots.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real Sex = the sex I give a woman.
Not real sex = what all you other fckrs give woman.
 

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To me, an act of sex is a gal physically making my Mr. Happy spit up, even as a starfish canal.
 
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