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What is possible from this career situation at 37 years old or what is my SMV

Stephen89

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I've studied two years of my computer science degree out of the three years many years ago.

I applied for software developer, computer programmer jobs back in 2018. Had a few phone interviews. I then stopped.

Ever since then, I'm working in a public facing role, in customer service.

However, there is no career or pay progression or progression out of it, henceforth I am looking to change.

I'll have GitHub projects.

I'll be applying for software developer, computer programmer, cloud computing, computing jobs. Also applying for jobs in data science, data analysis, AI. If I do not get these jobs, I will apply for jobs in:

Admin..

I'll also be applying for various co ordinator jobs. Logistics, supply chain, operations, transport, office, import, exports etc.

Then move jobs after experience or move up internally.

Due to competency in programming, I can get into masters in Artificial intelligence degree.

I'm 37, my father has given me his big detached house.

I have known a few minimum wage recycling workers, recycling team leaders to get nice partners, some of them educated. Recycling supervisors.

Moreover a coach driver worker too who obtained a nice partner.

The workers at my company have partners who work who share the mortgage payment, bill payments.

I do not know what's possible. Or what my SMV is now
 
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I'll be applying for software developer, computer programmer, cloud computing, computing jobs. Also applying for jobs in data science, data engineering data analysis, AI. If I do not get these jobs, I will apply for jobs in:

Admin.

I'll also be applying for various co ordinator jobs. Using my experience in customer service to obtain jobs in logistics, supply chain, operations, transport, office, import, exports etc.
 

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Your recent job experience is not showing that you can do the jobs you're after. Doing projects and putting that on your resume helps a little bit but you are going to look less qualified compared to other candidates for the jobs you're applying to.

What exactly are you trying to do? Imagine what you want your life to be like in detail.

I think, based on what I read here, that you are going to have to find another way to get to where you are going. Employers are not going to take you as seriously as you want them to.
 

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I'm 37, my father gave me his big detached house.
Don't think this isn't enough.
This is a big part!

Many people, including me, are in your same situation, friend, but they don't have a paid-for house and have bills to pay.

If I can advise you one thing, live alone in that house for at least a year.
Figure out what your fixed expenses are each month.

From that, figure out which jobs in your field would currently pay you to support yourself and save 50%.

Then, from there, study and get the position.

Your SMV is the same as mine, except you have a house, so it's higher :)

Think about your SMV not just in the eyes of women, but also in the eyes of what your life requires.
A roof and a monthly income.
 

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I could always do a masters degree in Artificial intelligence(an individual can get accepted if they are competent in programming). Which could open doors and I have read of people with a degree in history, geography who got jobs in retail banking being a product manager, finance, a job in projects.

There are a lot of entry level AI jobs.

So a masters degree could open up doors in other fields too.

It is an 18 month endeavour.
 
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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All I can tell from OP is that you don't appear to be a target for gold diggers. Other than that, your SMV depends on your looks (how fit and energetic you are, how you carry yourself), your mindset and maturity level.

I think a high income is important for practical aspects as far as raising a family is concerned. But it shouldn't affect your SMV ... in other words, let's say you get a job in AI (nebulous term, like working in finance) and that's what a prospective date knows about you in the beginning. If she then dumps you upon finding out you're making way less than she imagined, then it's clear she wasn't interested in you for you, but in your bank account. Some would say in that situation your SMV wasn't high enough but I say that's BS. Why would you want a relationship with a woman like that, who's just looking for a sap to be a provider for her? :rolleyes:
 
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