frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
umm HELLO! humans dont live 10,000 yrs.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What is Love?
- Thread starter B-Lemond
- Start date
umm HELLO! humans dont live 10,000 yrs.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
i get what your saying....if I lived for 10,000 yrs..im sure I would be bored with her in 50 yrs..
but the thing is....this youth and prime is over in about 15 yrs for me.....
which means I want to have a partner there with me...when I have kids, grandkids and hopefully great grand kids.
remember your going to be old one day..u wanna be old and alone?
but the thing is....this youth and prime is over in about 15 yrs for me.....
which means I want to have a partner there with me...when I have kids, grandkids and hopefully great grand kids.
remember your going to be old one day..u wanna be old and alone?
( . )( . )
Banned
Is this frivolousz chick still preaching this "love" sh!t to whoever will listen? you gotta be kidding me.
frivolousz I can read you better than you can read yourself you tool, like a book.
Ah the age old society scare tactic to beta-ise males. Hurry up and supplicate, think like a woman, believe in fantasies and thrive on emotion, if you dont no woman will want to be with you and you dont want to DIE ALONE do you?
frivolousz I can read you better than you can read yourself you tool, like a book.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I love you tit boy!
will u marry me?
:woo:
will u marry me?
:woo:
Just One
Many of you will dispute this but that is because the average person only sees what they are shown. After 37 years I have NEVER honestly seen the whole "Love eternal" thing. On the surface, yeah, but I can guarantee one or both parties are just co habitating through
FEAR OF DYING ALONE.
I only realised frivolous was a chick after reading that post.
ALL WOMEN SHOULD BE BANNED FROM THIS SITE.
Many of you will dispute this but that is because the average person only sees what they are shown. After 37 years I have NEVER honestly seen the whole "Love eternal" thing. On the surface, yeah, but I can guarantee one or both parties are just co habitating through
FEAR OF DYING ALONE.
I only realised frivolous was a chick after reading that post.
ALL WOMEN SHOULD BE BANNED FROM THIS SITE.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
you are wrong about me and what I believe.
and what is funny is that all the guys that advocate love are from the United States...wonder if that matters
and what is funny is that all the guys that advocate love are from the United States...wonder if that matters
( . )( . )
Banned
Yeah thats it drag your Countrymen down with you..wanker."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
i wonder what the percentage of american citizens married or have been married from age 21 to 75 is?
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
So do you FEEL something noticebly different when you are in LOVE? Is there a major change in your attitude or is it just that you like hearing from the person and etc. Would you know if your in love? Or better yet HOW would you know?
undesputable
Master Don Juan
I think if you take that attitude youll end up unhappily married. Yea you might be able to get any woman you want, but you want to make a good choice with the girl youll end up with, and in my opinion there arent many choices for a particular person. Ive dealt with my share of girls, but just a couple of weeks ago one came along and with her i feel unlike ive felt with any other girl.... Im sure shes not the only one that can do the same, but i sure as hell would need to go around a lot to find another one like her.The reason i say this is because everyone has their likes and dislikes, that specific balance you want whoever you end up with to have. Its damn hard to find a girl with that balance. In my opinon if you find the right woman and marry her, most of your happiness is going to come through that decision. if you marry the wrong woman because you were in a rush to find someone, like is going to be hell and you might as well not even have gotten married.Originally posted by S0LID
Old alone haha, doubt it, while alot of people waste time in so called love i'm getting exellent social skills. I can get a girl whenever i want man, it's not even worth worrying about dying alone
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Doug : " now repeat after me WE CAN GET INTO THE ROXBURY ! "
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
A Street Pimp's Perspective On Love
WHAT IS LOVE
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81812
copy + paste
A Street Pimp's Perspective On Love
Oneitis is putting all your eggs in one basket when you SHOULDN'T
Love is putting all your eggs in one basket when you SHOULD
have i ever been in love ? yes.
have i ever had oneitis ? yes.
have i ever been infatuated with women and felt like it was love ? yes
love is a word thrown around alot these days. ever chick says they " love " their boyfriend. and the next boyfriend.
12 guys later in 14 months she says she loves him too.
is this love ?
do these people know what love is ?
there is a love a real love that is so powerful it defies even death.
i will speak of this love first.
ALOT OF YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THIS LOVE :
it is the love ~ªêQµïTª$~ spoke of when he said
How do you explain those marriages that last... forever? and I am talking about those marriages where the couple are happy with each other, would do anything for each other, die for each other............... How Do you explain people staying with their partner even after a few years when the other looks like a hippo gone wrong? How do you explain that feeling you get when you are just in the presence of that individual? ...
our generation and the one before it do not understand this love
we are taught by society and the media SEX IS LOVE
young women are so confused as to what love is. they sleep with 50 men thinking they have it. all they have is the fleeting feeling of infatuation.
lets look at a written definition of true love :
1 Corinthians 13:
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.
9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when i became a man I put away childish things.
12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.
13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
the english language has one word for love. thats why we get confused at what someone means when they say it.
most other languages have many different words for the
DIFFERENT KINDS OF LOVE
from memory there are 4 in greek
one for unconditional love ( agape ? )
one for love of a family member
one for love of a friend
one for love of your spouse
We all like feeling good and " being in love " but it is not always the love spoken of in that bible quote
i can prove this easy
that is why we argue and fight and break up and cheat and lust and hate
alot of the relationships are not true love
they are this new age love or need to feel " in love "
it does not last
like ~ªêQµïTª$~ pointed out in his example true love shows itself
these old couples that have been married 50 years and love each other now as much as they did 50 years ago
another time i know. men and women were very different back then.
certainly alot more honourable. but they like we are simple products of our society.
our generation has been subject to terrible perversions.
gay rights. gay marriages. feminism. children growing up without fathers. divorce at 50%. sleeping with 100 people. AIDS. sex has no real meaning.
the list goes on. we have it alot harder that people did in those days.
true love can still be found. but it is a very rare treasure indeed.
i have had many women tell me they love me.
i have told many women i love them.
only one was true love.
i would have died for her and she would have died for me.
that is the test of love. prepared to give your life for someone else.
people who have children understand this love.
the rest of us must look hard and seek it out
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
WHAT IS LOVE
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81812
copy + paste
A Street Pimp's Perspective On Love
Oneitis is putting all your eggs in one basket when you SHOULDN'T
Love is putting all your eggs in one basket when you SHOULD
have i ever been in love ? yes.
have i ever had oneitis ? yes.
have i ever been infatuated with women and felt like it was love ? yes
love is a word thrown around alot these days. ever chick says they " love " their boyfriend. and the next boyfriend.
12 guys later in 14 months she says she loves him too.
is this love ?
do these people know what love is ?
there is a love a real love that is so powerful it defies even death.
i will speak of this love first.
ALOT OF YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THIS LOVE :
it is the love ~ªêQµïTª$~ spoke of when he said
How do you explain those marriages that last... forever? and I am talking about those marriages where the couple are happy with each other, would do anything for each other, die for each other............... How Do you explain people staying with their partner even after a few years when the other looks like a hippo gone wrong? How do you explain that feeling you get when you are just in the presence of that individual? ...
our generation and the one before it do not understand this love
we are taught by society and the media SEX IS LOVE
young women are so confused as to what love is. they sleep with 50 men thinking they have it. all they have is the fleeting feeling of infatuation.
lets look at a written definition of true love :
1 Corinthians 13:
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.
9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when i became a man I put away childish things.
12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.
13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
the english language has one word for love. thats why we get confused at what someone means when they say it.
most other languages have many different words for the
DIFFERENT KINDS OF LOVE
from memory there are 4 in greek
one for unconditional love ( agape ? )
one for love of a family member
one for love of a friend
one for love of your spouse
We all like feeling good and " being in love " but it is not always the love spoken of in that bible quote
i can prove this easy
that is why we argue and fight and break up and cheat and lust and hate
alot of the relationships are not true love
they are this new age love or need to feel " in love "
it does not last
like ~ªêQµïTª$~ pointed out in his example true love shows itself
these old couples that have been married 50 years and love each other now as much as they did 50 years ago
another time i know. men and women were very different back then.
certainly alot more honourable. but they like we are simple products of our society.
our generation has been subject to terrible perversions.
gay rights. gay marriages. feminism. children growing up without fathers. divorce at 50%. sleeping with 100 people. AIDS. sex has no real meaning.
the list goes on. we have it alot harder that people did in those days.
true love can still be found. but it is a very rare treasure indeed.
i have had many women tell me they love me.
i have told many women i love them.
only one was true love.
i would have died for her and she would have died for me.
that is the test of love. prepared to give your life for someone else.
people who have children understand this love.
the rest of us must look hard and seek it out
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If a person doesn't know the difference between love, infatuation and obsession then they have yet to experience true love. Once you've known the real thing, there is no confusing it with infatuation or obsession or feeling "in love" (infatuation).
I've loved twice in my life.
There's nothing quite like it.
I've loved twice in my life.
There's nothing quite like it.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
hey I am all for you wildfire! atleast your not in denial like some of the so called DJ's
Hey fcuk head.
I'm barely reading this thread but this sort of statement makes me sick. Maybe YOU have the problem. Maybe your communication skills are lacking, and he's not some retard. Maybe your point is just dumb. Who knows but just because he doesn't jump on your opinion like a freakin barnacle to a ship doesn't means he's stupid.
btw, love isn't long lasting lust. I happen to love and crave being with and around the various women i've been in love with even when i'm not actively lusting for them. Maybe you like 95% of the others on this message board are another little monkey who thinks with his d1ck and gets off by how many girls he can fcku but some of us happen to like love and monogamy and have evolved past monkeys.
Loving one woman for 10,000 years maybe not.. but human "love" evolved for a much shorter lifespan so it's not meant to be that scaleable. Sh1t's not always linear.
Originally posted by S0LID
I can get a girl whenever i want man, it's not even worth worrying about dying alone
I'd rather sit home alone and play video games than pick up any girl "whenever i want" that I don't care about beyond sex.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.