frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
you think your in love man. do you think if humans lived to 10 thousand years old tho ud still be with her phffft. I was the same as you once
umm HELLO! humans dont live 10,000 yrs.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
you think your in love man. do you think if humans lived to 10 thousand years old tho ud still be with her phffft. I was the same as you once
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ah the age old society scare tactic to beta-ise males. Hurry up and supplicate, think like a woman, believe in fantasies and thrive on emotion, if you dont no woman will want to be with you and you dont want to DIE ALONE do you?Originally posted by frivolousz21
remember your going to be old one day..u wanna be old and alone?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
shiiit dude, when I read this topic's title I was thinking about that tooOriginally posted by selfmademob
What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
What is love
Originally posted by frivolousz21
and what is funny is that all the guys that advocate love are from the United States...wonder if that matters
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah thats it drag your Countrymen down with you..wanker.
I think if you take that attitude youll end up unhappily married. Yea you might be able to get any woman you want, but you want to make a good choice with the girl youll end up with, and in my opinion there arent many choices for a particular person. Ive dealt with my share of girls, but just a couple of weeks ago one came along and with her i feel unlike ive felt with any other girl.... Im sure shes not the only one that can do the same, but i sure as hell would need to go around a lot to find another one like her.The reason i say this is because everyone has their likes and dislikes, that specific balance you want whoever you end up with to have. Its damn hard to find a girl with that balance. In my opinon if you find the right woman and marry her, most of your happiness is going to come through that decision. if you marry the wrong woman because you were in a rush to find someone, like is going to be hell and you might as well not even have gotten married.Originally posted by S0LID
Old alone haha, doubt it, while alot of people waste time in so called love i'm getting exellent social skills. I can get a girl whenever i want man, it's not even worth worrying about dying aloneyou'll learn
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
hey I am all for you wildfire! atleast your not in denial like some of the so called DJ'sAge:
If a person doesn't know the difference between love, infatuation and obsession then they have yet to experience true love. Once you've known the real thing, there is no confusing it with infatuation or obsession or feeling "in love" (infatuation).
I've loved twice in my life.
There's nothing quite like it.
Hey fcuk head.Originally posted by S0LID
Ok man your simple minded, your not understanding what i'm saying at all, nevermind.
Originally posted by S0LID
I can get a girl whenever i want man, it's not even worth worrying about dying aloneyou'll learn
Sh1t's not always linear.[/QUOTE0]
this is a very very very true statement
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.