frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
you think your in love man. do you think if humans lived to 10 thousand years old tho ud still be with her phffft. I was the same as you once
umm HELLO! humans dont live 10,000 yrs.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
you think your in love man. do you think if humans lived to 10 thousand years old tho ud still be with her phffft. I was the same as you once
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ah the age old society scare tactic to beta-ise males. Hurry up and supplicate, think like a woman, believe in fantasies and thrive on emotion, if you dont no woman will want to be with you and you dont want to DIE ALONE do you?Originally posted by frivolousz21
remember your going to be old one day..u wanna be old and alone?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shiiit dude, when I read this topic's title I was thinking about that tooOriginally posted by selfmademob
What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
What is love
Originally posted by frivolousz21
and what is funny is that all the guys that advocate love are from the United States...wonder if that matters
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah thats it drag your Countrymen down with you..wanker.
I think if you take that attitude youll end up unhappily married. Yea you might be able to get any woman you want, but you want to make a good choice with the girl youll end up with, and in my opinion there arent many choices for a particular person. Ive dealt with my share of girls, but just a couple of weeks ago one came along and with her i feel unlike ive felt with any other girl.... Im sure shes not the only one that can do the same, but i sure as hell would need to go around a lot to find another one like her.The reason i say this is because everyone has their likes and dislikes, that specific balance you want whoever you end up with to have. Its damn hard to find a girl with that balance. In my opinon if you find the right woman and marry her, most of your happiness is going to come through that decision. if you marry the wrong woman because you were in a rush to find someone, like is going to be hell and you might as well not even have gotten married.Originally posted by S0LID
Old alone haha, doubt it, while alot of people waste time in so called love i'm getting exellent social skills. I can get a girl whenever i want man, it's not even worth worrying about dying aloneyou'll learn
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
hey I am all for you wildfire! atleast your not in denial like some of the so called DJ'sAge:
If a person doesn't know the difference between love, infatuation and obsession then they have yet to experience true love. Once you've known the real thing, there is no confusing it with infatuation or obsession or feeling "in love" (infatuation).
I've loved twice in my life.
There's nothing quite like it.
Hey fcuk head.Originally posted by S0LID
Ok man your simple minded, your not understanding what i'm saying at all, nevermind.
Originally posted by S0LID
I can get a girl whenever i want man, it's not even worth worrying about dying aloneyou'll learn
Sh1t's not always linear.[/QUOTE0]
this is a very very very true statement
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.