"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WHAT IS LOVE ?

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So, you came across this website and made a lot of realization after you have read all the articles that you need to improve yourself and increased the success rate of having women in your life.

Now you applied all what you have learned in real life situations and became stronger and called yourself a great DJ. Better than the average guys.

So my next question is, since I believe we want/need women because it involves Love.

So what is Love to you?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Baby don't hurt me...don't hurt me...

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I think you should be posing this question to Steve or Doug Butabi....they might have a better answer for you...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
 
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ChristopherColumbus said:
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
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This is the right answer, it's all over for you people :D

He just won the game :D
 
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There is no such thing as "love". It's an emotion.

There is chemical addiction, there is family bond, there is being turned on more, there is sex, there is making babies, but love doesn't exist.

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.

"I'll pay you $2 million for that house, and another $300K for love."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trump said:
There is no such thing as "love". It's an emotion.

There is chemical addiction, there is family bond, there is being turned on more, there is sex, there is making babies, but love doesn't exist.

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.

"I'll pay you $2 million for that house, and another $300K for love."
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How bout the air that you breath?

Does it exist?

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.
 
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Romantic love is an evolved behavior to emotionally tie a couple together so that they are less likely to abandon one another (more for the man to not abandon the woman), thereby increasing the likelihood that any children will have both parents around, which is evolutionarily positive for obvious reasons; this is the reason why men who fool around always keep around the original wife. Similarly along that line, the ability of a woman to drop a man and cling on to another one is evolved behavior from the time of widespread tribal warfare in which defeated tribes were slaughtered, and women who had good attitudes about becoming the victory plural bride were allowed to have their children (i.e., with the original husband) survive.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Fruitbat said:
John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends

From the arch atheist, but the bible has some incredible quotes.
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Are you a catholic?
 
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Fruitbat said:
LOL I spend much of my time on here arguing with Christians and trying to bring them to my cold hard world of reality.

No, I am not a Catholic, and if I was going to choose, I would choose Protestant all day over Catholicism. I don't hate much but the Catholic church is up there, sorry if that offends. There are undoubtedly some excellent Catholic people in the world.

Perhaps it's prejudice. I'm English and the word "Catholic" conjures up an image of a fat, drunk Irish priest with a glint in his eye, ushering a child into a back room :)
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What faith do you believe in? :)
 
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Trump said:
There is no such thing as "love". It's an emotion.

There is chemical addiction, there is family bond, there is being turned on more, there is sex, there is making babies, but love doesn't exist.

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.

"I'll pay you $2 million for that house, and another $300K for love."
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Dumbest sh1t ive read all day
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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