"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WHAT IS LOVE ?

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So, you came across this website and made a lot of realization after you have read all the articles that you need to improve yourself and increased the success rate of having women in your life.

Now you applied all what you have learned in real life situations and became stronger and called yourself a great DJ. Better than the average guys.

So my next question is, since I believe we want/need women because it involves Love.

So what is Love to you?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Baby don't hurt me...don't hurt me...

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I think you should be posing this question to Steve or Doug Butabi....they might have a better answer for you...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
 

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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

This is the right answer, it's all over for you people :D

He just won the game :D
 

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There is no such thing as "love". It's an emotion.

There is chemical addiction, there is family bond, there is being turned on more, there is sex, there is making babies, but love doesn't exist.

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.

"I'll pay you $2 million for that house, and another $300K for love."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no such thing as "love". It's an emotion.

There is chemical addiction, there is family bond, there is being turned on more, there is sex, there is making babies, but love doesn't exist.

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.

"I'll pay you $2 million for that house, and another $300K for love."
How bout the air that you breath?

Does it exist?

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.
 

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Romantic love is an evolved behavior to emotionally tie a couple together so that they are less likely to abandon one another (more for the man to not abandon the woman), thereby increasing the likelihood that any children will have both parents around, which is evolutionarily positive for obvious reasons; this is the reason why men who fool around always keep around the original wife. Similarly along that line, the ability of a woman to drop a man and cling on to another one is evolved behavior from the time of widespread tribal warfare in which defeated tribes were slaughtered, and women who had good attitudes about becoming the victory plural bride were allowed to have their children (i.e., with the original husband) survive.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends

From the arch atheist, but the bible has some incredible quotes.
Are you a catholic?
 

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LOL I spend much of my time on here arguing with Christians and trying to bring them to my cold hard world of reality.

No, I am not a Catholic, and if I was going to choose, I would choose Protestant all day over Catholicism. I don't hate much but the Catholic church is up there, sorry if that offends. There are undoubtedly some excellent Catholic people in the world.

Perhaps it's prejudice. I'm English and the word "Catholic" conjures up an image of a fat, drunk Irish priest with a glint in his eye, ushering a child into a back room :)
What faith do you believe in? :)
 

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There is no such thing as "love". It's an emotion.

There is chemical addiction, there is family bond, there is being turned on more, there is sex, there is making babies, but love doesn't exist.

Can you sell it? Does it have a monetary value? If not, it doesn't exist.

"I'll pay you $2 million for that house, and another $300K for love."
Dumbest sh1t ive read all day
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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