She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"hey"Originally posted by Viking25
For those of us who work out a lot . Sometimes I see women at the gym I want to approach...but I got nothing to say.....Any good openers that worked for you guys?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
LOLOriginally posted by Mr. Delicious
Ask her if she wants 2 tickets to the gun show. Then proceed to flex and point to your biceps saying this is "Smith" and this is "Wessen"![]()
I think what you said is true unless you go to the gym all the time. If you've seen a girl at the gym like 50 times and you're both serious about your work out, she's not going to think anything bad of it if you approach.Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
The gym is a holy place. Like going to church. You should leave your game at the door and work-the-fuq-out. I've never run game at the gym, but I see guys do it all the time and it just comes off lame. I think it's the environment, women are expecting the posturing and not disposed to being approached. That and you'd better be bullet-proof in the physique department since all of the camouflage you can get away with at a club or bar are stripped down. Also, when you run game at the gym it's glaringly evident that you're more interested in hooking up than working out and this kills any apperance confidence, aloofness or self-importance.
That said, the gym can be productive if you play it right. Never make an approach at the gym, wait for an AI and then make an approach after YOU'RE done with YOUR routine. I used to get a lot of play from gym chicks in the parking lot after a workout as well as conveniently running into them at a club or bar or in a college class and using this (very physical) association to my advantage. It removes the guess work for a girl about your physique as well as your determination or self-confidence.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HEY, That's so crazy, it just might work!!!!Originally posted by Eileen
A line, is a line and it sounds like a line. Why not just say "Hi, I'm name. I see you here a lot and thought I'd introduce myself."