"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what is a good Gym opener?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
One thing to remember, it's not too cool to talk to someone while they are doing their sets. Breaking up someone's rhythm especially if they are an athlete in training. Catch her on the way to the locker room and ask to get together for coffee after a shower.
One on One
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"hey"
"......hi"
"damn u spend so much time in here, ive seen them come and go, you wont end up looking any hotter."
then when they say **** off i usually take my pants off, and as i was pulling it through my pocket, i shoot a load straight in her mouth, then i ask for her number.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
What I do is look at their muscles, tone shape, general build, exercises and clothes. I get a pretty good idea if they're a proper sporty girl or a keep fit/lard off ass girl.
I go up and I say. 'Don't tell me, your a (insert sport here). If you're right you get a brownie point, if you're wrong, who gives a ****.
Whatever happens don't say ' Don tell me, you're a prop forward aren't you.
If in doubt always go for 'you're a dancer' or something flattering.
This leads into alsorts of interesting convos.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
40 mins on the Nordic? I bet you fuk like a train.
LucidDreamer
Don Juan
If she has on headphones, interrupt her between sets and ask what she likes to listen to while she works out.
If she does any real lifts (squat, deadlift, BB row) ask where she learned it and why she does it.
if she's doing legs ask if it's her "leg day" and what else she does to hit the quads or something like that. Serious lifters always love to learn a new lift, you could suggest a lift if she seems receptive.
Or you could just say "hi my name's dreamer we seem to work out at the same time"
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
chancer
Senior Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
That said, the gym can be productive if you play it right. Never make an approach at the gym, wait for an AI and then make an approach after YOU'RE done with YOUR routine. I used to get a lot of play from gym chicks in the parking lot after a workout as well as conveniently running into them at a club or bar or in a college class and using this (very physical) association to my advantage. It removes the guess work for a girl about your physique as well as your determination or self-confidence.
One on One
Master Don Juan
I think what you said is true unless you go to the gym all the time. If you've seen a girl at the gym like 50 times and you're both serious about your work out, she's not going to think anything bad of it if you approach.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
HEY, That's so crazy, it just might work!!!!
I just haven't been the type to take an aerobics, spinning or yoga class although those always are suggested as well.