"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What if your wife turned into this?
- Thread starter speakeasy
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
Lovely.
Not.
Not.
Negative_Nancy
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her stomach is like a second ass
twice the fun!
twice the fun!
Turned into this? I bet she was always fat!
You might as well go for the trifecta and marry a fat b1tch who also happens to be a crazy bipolar religious nut!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3mDLsyn6ns
You might as well go for the trifecta and marry a fat b1tch who also happens to be a crazy bipolar religious nut!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3mDLsyn6ns
godofanxiety
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The fvck was that? Give us some bg info.DJDamage said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I believe that was the result of one of those "trading spouses" shows. The genius, (not sarcastic), pure genius was to pair up a born again christian nut case with some tarot card reading family, and watch them explode.godofanxiety said:
the money she was tearing up was the twenty five grand or so that people get for going on that show.
CTApprentice
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I AM A GOD WARRIOR!!!
Man that episode was epic.
Man that episode was epic.
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People like her are the false teachers and crazies that Jesus himself warned about
People like her make religion look bad
She is not a true God warrior or christian. If she were then she wouldn't have been judging like that
that's not what Jesus taught
People like her make religion look bad
She is not a true God warrior or christian. If she were then she wouldn't have been judging like that
that's not what Jesus taught
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ganondorf!
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It's because I had more than one account activepiranha45 said:
I was both Raikojo17 and Ganondorf. I had two because of the dumb 10 post limit so that's why I made Ganondorf
I also shared a computer with Negative_Nancy who is My bro, who was accused of trolling even though it was more arguing than trolling....
so in the end they thought I was trolling so the banned all my accounts
now I just have this One
PRMoon
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Come on. If you're big and you like big girls then ending up with someone like that is no big surprise. The god warrior is even worse. It's like marrying a hooker. You knew what she was like before you married her and you clearly have no one to blame but yourself when you have over dramatic breakouts.
Talk about nothing new. Smack you in the face obvious answers here.
Talk about nothing new. Smack you in the face obvious answers here.