"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What If Your Girl Wanted To Be...

ProDJ26

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A Stripper!!!! thats right, me and my girl had a discussion about her "dancing"
I honestly didnt know what to say until she mentioned the fact of her giving lap dances. I was pissed to hear but I told her I never really thought of it much. But the fact that she'll be giving lap dances to random as dudes to me sounds like an open inventation to her having sex with other dudes. I mean come on, a lap dance is practically dry humping and foreplay!!!!! :eek:

I guess the question for you guys is, what if your girl wanted to start stripping? :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexy_kuta

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you got a slut for a gf, fuk her, use her and make much of it.
you wont have the same opportunity later on.
 

ValleyDJing

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Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
 

wjh

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i would get over my oneitis and turn her out.
How much of this money she'll be making will be going to pay your rent, buy you clothes, etc.?
 

ProDJ26

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
I am a business major lol maybe this is my future business

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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"what if your girl wanted to start stripping?"

Nexting would be my response if it was during a relationship with that chick.

No offense but a chick that does that is a fvcking slvt and I would have no respect for the girl to move forward and continue the relationship with her.

Do what you gotta do though man.

Its about what you can tolerate not us and what you find to be ok not us.

I'm with SMC though that using her for sex would be a good option to consider but yeah the minute a chick reveals she wants to do this and goes and does it turn off your emotions for her and just play along and get what you can if you will not next outright.
 

Sir Juanalot

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Also, be aware that it will probably turn her into a materialistic bi0tch, my friends wife went down that path and went from a relatively chilled relaxed woman, into a money hungry crazy h0.
 

playa99

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
im with him on this one lol ;)

she wouldnt accept you being a male stripper

so why should you have to put up with her lap dancing

fair's fair
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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