"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What If Your Girl Wanted To Be...

ProDJ26

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A Stripper!!!! thats right, me and my girl had a discussion about her "dancing"
I honestly didnt know what to say until she mentioned the fact of her giving lap dances. I was pissed to hear but I told her I never really thought of it much. But the fact that she'll be giving lap dances to random as dudes to me sounds like an open inventation to her having sex with other dudes. I mean come on, a lap dance is practically dry humping and foreplay!!!!! :eek:

I guess the question for you guys is, what if your girl wanted to start stripping? :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexy_kuta

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you got a slut for a gf, fuk her, use her and make much of it.
you wont have the same opportunity later on.
 

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Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
 

wjh

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i would get over my oneitis and turn her out.
How much of this money she'll be making will be going to pay your rent, buy you clothes, etc.?
 

ProDJ26

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
I am a business major lol maybe this is my future business

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX

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"what if your girl wanted to start stripping?"

Nexting would be my response if it was during a relationship with that chick.

No offense but a chick that does that is a fvcking slvt and I would have no respect for the girl to move forward and continue the relationship with her.

Do what you gotta do though man.

Its about what you can tolerate not us and what you find to be ok not us.

I'm with SMC though that using her for sex would be a good option to consider but yeah the minute a chick reveals she wants to do this and goes and does it turn off your emotions for her and just play along and get what you can if you will not next outright.
 

Sir Juanalot

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Also, be aware that it will probably turn her into a materialistic bi0tch, my friends wife went down that path and went from a relatively chilled relaxed woman, into a money hungry crazy h0.
 

playa99

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
im with him on this one lol ;)

she wouldnt accept you being a male stripper

so why should you have to put up with her lap dancing

fair's fair
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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